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March 20, 2026

Are You Highly Sensitive? The Neuroscience of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, 12 Signs You Might Have It and Why Logic Won't Fix Emotional Pain.

This might be the most vulnerable episode we’ve ever recorded.No guests. No buffer. Just Mayim and Jonathan…and something we didn’t realize was quietly shaping Mayim's entire life!We’re talking about Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) — and what started as a casual conversation turned into a full-blown personal reckoning.If you’ve ever:- Felt physical pain when you thought someone was disappointed in you- Spiraled for HOURS (or years) over one tiny mistake- Assumed you were getting fired every time your boss said, “Can we talk?”- Left parties early because you were sure you didn’t belong- Become enraged, ashamed, or devastated over something other people say “isn’t a big deal”…this is the episode to help you make it all make sense.Mayim & Jonathan break down:- Very real, very intense emotional and physical experience of RSD (the kind often associated with ADHD and neurodivergence, but not limited to it)- What’s happening in the brain- Why logic DOESN’T fix it- Overlap with perfectionism, people-pleasing, codependency, & rage- Why success, fame, or external validation doesn’t magically make it go away- Whether extreme physical training could override emotional sensitivityMayim shares stories she's never shared before:- Why being late to meetings triggers white hot rage- Why improv makes her want to cry- Why hosting Jeopardy! didn’t protect her from feeling exposed- What it was really like making public appearances while starring on The Big Bang TheoryAnd yes…you know they had to take a quiz. Follow along with us and share your results!This Isn’t About Being “Too Sensitive”. This is about a nervous system that experiences perceived rejection as catastrophe.For some people, it feels like:- Being punched in the chest- Not being able to breathe- Instant shame and/or rage- Total collapse of perspectiveAnd if you don’t experience this? You’ll finally understand what someone you love might be going through.The Hard Questions We Ask- Is this just low self-esteem?- Are we over-diagnosing everything?- Is this a modern luxury problem?- Does having a label help…or limit you?- Can confidence actually fix this?- What you can actually do to copeAnd the most important takeaway:This isn’t about weakness.It’s about perception. And perception can shift.This conversation evolved in ways we did NOT expect. It’s raw. It’s personal. It’s uncomfortable. And it might explain things in your life you’ve never had language for.If you’ve ever wondered, “Why does this hurt so much more for me than for everyone else?”Start here.

Theme Song Written, Produced, and Performed by Ed Robertson. Mixed by Kenny Luong.
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Mayim Bialik

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Jonathan Cohen

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